I liked being Mormon, so I didn’t realize until I left (because of disbelief) how much of my life had been decided not by me, but by the Church. Once I stepped into the great unknown of my future without Mormonism I realized there were all kinds of wonderful things I preferred to do with my life; things I feel are more worthwhile to myself, my family and others. So where did I go and what did I do? I joined a community of young moms like myself, started a business, took lots and lots of dance classes and yoga , became a published writer, spent more quality time with my kids and gave them film and ballet experience and training that would have been difficult to do as an active Mormon. I made more genuine friendships. I learned to question more and think critically. I found causes I care deeply about. I took charge of my schedule, my money, money focus, and my time. Basically, I took charge of my own life.
Noell in Chandler
These are stories of health and happiness outside the Mormon church.
The Simple Life
At the age of 9 I was baptized into the Mormon Church with the rest of my family after having met with missionaries. I was an on again off again member for a while until 2001 when my family and I were sealed together in the Salt Lake Temple. From there I was a fully...
Those who wander are not always lost
In response to "where will you go?" I say, "those who wander are not always lost," and there is "joy in the journey." The first part is a popular quote from J.R.R. Tolkien, the second part is from the 1998 EFY theme and together they sum up what my spiritual journey...
I can finally enjoy life
I left the LDS church 7 years ago. In that time I have become my genuine self, made lasting and beautiful friendships with people who love me unconditionally, gotten married to the love of my life, and had a gorgeous and healthy child. I don't judge others as harshly...
Towards Love, Authenticity, and a Genuine Daily Life
10 years ago as a gay, newly divorced father of four and former Mormon, where I would go and what I would do was indeed the looming question. A lifetime of seminary, sunday school, priesthood, mission, BYU and church leadership had me imagining myself at best as a...
I will find happiness
The Mormon church has been apart of my family for generations and I would say it is still a part of my culture. I learned a lot of things from being an active member, a bishop’s daughter, and a youth leader. I learned to how to be confident speaking in front of a...
Losing my religion wasn’t the end
The Mormon faith has always been a strong influence in my life and upbringing. However at a young age, I chose to become inactive. I was a very confused young adult with a lot of questions. The answer I was given: to pray... which I did but I still felt very unsure...